Happy Endings
The title of the very first post on this blog happens to be on ending, strange right? But I believe there's no end to anything , though world desperately needs an end to many things. And in the recent times the anti-vaxxers's idiocy tops that list.
So life happens more like a loop, and events don't actually end, hence there ain't a chance of an ending being happy or sad.
Take for a situation at your old place of work, an encounter with a stranger, or a comment by a dumbfuck idiot on the social media. Although there have had been a physical end to those, but in the world of your mind it still lingers.
Endings, aren't important either, unless it's of an amazing movie/docuseries with the credits rolling out, and no one bothers to read them and leave the cinema hall or skip to next webseries. A totally sad thing to do after enjoying the product of their sweat and soul. That's a whole topic in itself, let's save it for some other day.
So endings don't matter, it's the journey.
It is also never about the destination, it is about the adventure, the soul-thrilling experience you have along the way. Like the 390+ km journey of 10 hours straight on a two wheeler, which wasn't driven for more than a 10 km at stretch in years.
It wasn't about the person I was to meet at the end of the journey, it was about the catharsis my inner self was going through while doing something I enjoy the most. It also wasn't about the end result of my badly Sun burnt hands and face, it was about the journey which I was willing to make when I truly love someone.
Love is just love actually, you love or you don't love. Nothing like true love or false love. But people mistake many things to love, so for the clarification of those 'truly' love had to be mentioned.
This journey changes you as a person, in a better or a worse way is upto solely you. You can take in all the adversities you encounter, learn from them and make them your strength or you can sulk comparing how others get a easy life except for you.
The various heartbreaks, few bittersweet, few sour ones, may be were an end to that specific relationship. But you still carry on with you the lessons learned from others and also the treasured memories. You embark on this journey of self love and discovery, which only stops when you reach your grave.
Endings aren't happy when you happen to lose someone in their physical form, untimely along your journey. But as I said earlier, life is a loop, someone of similar kind with their own quirky character comes up to keep you company.
To end this post ( for real ) I would like to add that all stories needn't have an end. Sometimes a pause or a semicolon add more sense than a fullstop.
Cheers!!
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